Saturday, June 25, 2005
Rage...
Sometimes things just really get to you; the way people can be inconsiderate, the way they can be stupid, their utter blindness to the obvious. I'm no exception I suppose, I probably piss people off to an extent I can only imagine. What do you do with the pent up rage that's accumulating constantly? What do you do when your escapes begin to frustrate you? How do you handle it when there is no release? Because the more you search and fail to find a release for the pent up anger, the more it builds up. I've tried my escapes, they aggravate me, they are no longer releases, they are sources of further rage. Eventually you reach a point where you will either explode or implode. I don't recall ever imploding. Though I don't recall exploding anytime recently, which is not a good thing either. It's about time for another explosion.
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I GUESS THE PROBLEM IS THAT PEOPLE AREN'T 100% TRANSPARENT. PEOPLE'S EMOTIONS AND THOUGHTS ARE HIDDEN EITHER ON PURPOSE OR AUTOMATICALLY THROUGH THE FACT THAT WE ARE HUMAN MAKES THINGS COME OUT 'FILTERED'. SOMETIMES YOU CAN BE REALLY MAD, BUT NOBODY CAN REALIZE HOW MAD YOU ARE, CUZ IT DOESN'T SHOW UP ON A METER, AND SOME PEOPLE CAN MISREAD IT TOTALLY. A LOT OF PEOPLE CAN'T CARE, OR DON'T HAVE THE CAPACITY TO PUT OTHER PEOPLE'S FEELINGS IN MIND. I GUESS THAT IS WHY PEOPLE RUB OTHERS THE WRONG WAY.
WHEN IT COMES TO RAGE, YOU HAVE TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO FIND AN OUTLET THAT WON'T GET YOU HURT AND/OR IN TROUBLE. THERE IS ENOUGH RAGE IN EACH PERSON TO DESTROY THE WORLD A MILLION TIMES OVER, SO IT DOESN'T DO THE PACKAGE ANY GOOD, AND THE PACKAGE BEING YOURSELF.
I HOPE YOU CHEER UP AND THAT YOU GET THROUGH THE STAGE AS CLEANLY AS POSSIBLE.
KEEP IT REAL.
Sometimes when some persons are in rage, they do their best to hide it to the extent that they send a message to those around them that reads we don’t care about just about anything. For those around the enraged person, it becomes very difficult to be there for him to help him in the way he wants to get through that stage of rage since he so ardently actually asked them to go away because he doesn’t care. While again the enraged has enough on his mind, very few people can understand that they can do more help by being away from a person they care about than by sticking around. Hence the misunderstanding, he can see people as inconsiderate, blind to the obvious and utterly stupid.
My guess would be that if this person opens up, stops being the mystery he is and declares himself angry when he is, he will make his own life and the lives of those around him much easier.
I’m no psychologist anyway - in fact I might need help according to the writer of this blog.
I think idea is to be able to control your rage, and anger.The strongest is the one that can control his/her anger and emotions. We wouldnt need to explode or implode, if we didnt feel any anger or learned not to get pissed off by any event.
Dude, I guess your exactly like a dried up sponge. You soak as much as you possibly could, and then one day you explode. Hiding, escaping, etc, is not a great way of dealing with anger an rage. Dealing with the situation is a better solution, a common one that people say but more like the solution to any given problem. In my opinion there are many ways you could deal with "RAGE" and "ANGER". Some people let out all their way by laughter, making jokes, etc. Some people find a partner and, well you know the rest for that part. Some people get a punching bag, put a picture of their aggravator and kick the living crap out of it. And some people go directly to the source and talk to them. There are many ways to deal with a problem, but surely hiding and escaping isn't a solution.
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